Top Mistakes that Couples Make During Divorce

Divorce is a complex and emotionally charged process. At Orlando Family Team, we understand that navigating this journey can be challenging. Here are some common mistakes to avoid to help you achieve a smoother resolution. 

1. Ignoring Financial Realities

A frequent mistake is failing to fully understand your financial situation. Couples often overlook the importance of a thorough review of their assets and debts, which can lead to unfair settlements or unexpected financial burdens. To avoid this, gather all relevant financial documents, including bank statements, tax returns, and property deeds. Working with a financial advisor can also provide clarity on your financial landscape and help you make informed decisions. 

2. Letting Emotions Drive Decisions

Divorce can be emotionally overwhelming, and letting these emotions dictate your choices can lead to poor outcomes. It’s crucial to keep your long-term goals in mind rather than getting caught up in minor disputes. Seeking support from a counselor can help you manage your emotions and approach decisions more rationally. Relying on your attorney’s expertise can also ensure that decisions are based on facts rather than feelings. 

3. Neglecting a Detailed Parenting Plan

For couples with children, a well-structured parenting plan is essential. Failing to create a detailed plan can result in confusion and conflicts. Your parenting plan should outline specifics such as the schedule for regular times, holidays, and special occasions, as well as responsibilities for child support and other expenses. Prioritizing your children’s stability and well-being helps minimize disputes and ensures their needs are met. 

4. Making Rash Financial Decisions

Financial missteps during divorce can have long-term consequences. Avoid making significant purchases or changes to your lifestyle before finalizing the divorce. These decisions can impact asset division and overall financial stability. Additionally, consult with a tax professional to understand the tax implications of divorce-related financial matters to avoid unexpected liabilities. 

5. Overlooking Alternative Dispute Resolution

Many couples assume that divorce must be a contentious courtroom battle, but alternative dispute resolution methods like mediation and collaborative divorce can be beneficial. These approaches are generally less adversarial and more cost-effective, focusing on cooperation and mutual agreements. ADR methods can help resolve issues more amicably and efficiently. 

6. Skipping Legal Representation

Attempting to navigate divorce without legal representation can be risky and overwhelming. An experienced attorney provides valuable guidance through legal procedures, paperwork, and negotiations. They offer objective advice that helps you make informed decisions and protect your interests. Legal representation is particularly crucial for understanding complex issues and avoiding costly mistakes. 

The Attorneys at Orlando Family Team Help Those in Florida Who Are Considering Divorce

Avoiding these common mistakes can help make your divorce process smoother and more manageable. An experienced divorce attorney can help walk you through each step of the process. For expert guidance and support throughout your divorce, contact Orlando Family Team. We’re here to help you navigate this challenging time with confidence and clarity. Contact us today to learn more!

About the Author
Andrew Nickolaou, Esq., B.C.S., is a founding partner at Bernal-Mora & Nickolaou, P.A. He practices almost exclusively in divorce, marital and family law. Andrew and his partner, Ophelia Bernal-Mora, Esq., B.C.S., joined forces in March 2016 to form the unique and boutique husband and wife family law team at Bernal-Mora & Nickolaou, P.A. Together, Andrew and Ophelia take a practical and team-based approach to all of their cases and clients to deliver the highest quality experience and representation.